*Marriage *
For me my relatives meant only parents and brother
And special attention during my wedding seemed to bother
Because I knew this is just for today
But afterall it was my special day
The handful mehendi which would last Hardly for a week
But spent thousands for this and makeup streak
Smiling for pictures entire day on this feast
And a surprise stay in a hotel which I enjoyed the least
On one hand leaving parents home
On other adjustments with in-laws dome
Settling up in abroad and learning chores
Searching for job and enrolling in Exams course
Getting to know my spouse with time
And accepting him as mine
From being lazy at all task towards being pro
Handling house chores along with going office to and fro
The transition has been nicer
Going to job has made me wiser
Understanding self , spouse, work culture has been tough
There were times I was either vulnerable or rough
Although my mother-in law is good
I have at times misunderstood
But now I have made peace
And burden baggage left to release
Marriage also comes with a question about kid
And baby names in advance if it's alia or sid
I also have succumbed to society pressure
Couple with our age have one for sure
But now I am taking things easy
It's about doing duty nicely and being busy
Marriage is not just a licence to bear baby
It's also about mutual understanding and not being shabby
Things will fall in place at right time
And life looks better and fine
Just grateful to have a blessed married life
And having a loving husband and being his doting wife!!!
©️✍️ Priyanka Kamath
19 March 2025
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