(Old Post 91).Moment of regret

Moment of regret

   She was very lively and attached girl.She knew there are people who adore her.Her uncle and aunt didnt knew way to her place hence tried making her phone call.It was raining heavily outside.

 She guessed by their constant missed calls that they were trying hard to reach her.As she didnt had her own vehicle and was raining heavily,she chose not to respond .But her laziness caused them trouble.The auto rickshaw driver looted from them thrice the amount by just misguiding them in their way.

 Finally after struggling so much in that heavy rain and seeking particular address from many,finally they reached her.

  As she realised,she was very guilty of her act.They spoke so well to her,shed their love,blessed her,got her favourite fruits,spent quality time with her and then left to their town.Though she accompanied them till bus stop,she felt very bad for what she had done to them.Before they left,she aoplogized them for her ignorant behaviour and was deeply sorry for the same.

  They were very kind and positive and didnt mind the trouble they had to face in this rainy day.

  Its always that she seeked Love.But when there are ones who love her,she didnt tend to bother much.Problem with us is we dont count our blessings.because of her neglect ,her dear ones were struggling.Her one reply could save them from unnecessary wastage of time,money,trouble and tension.She could have rather told her issues in assertive way rather than portraying a passive behaviour.But this a big lesson she could learn.

 It happens that we keep complaining for things rather than valuing the blessings of what we have.Overthinking makes us oversee normal things as too much complicated.we seek love from them who dont care for us and we dont care them who love us truely.

 She had so many memories to cherish.Though she cant repair the trouble caused to them due to her,she promise herself  not to repeat the same.This moment of regret thought her lesson for life...Dear God,Forgive her for same !!

-05/08/2017
Priyanka Kamath

(Old Post 90).Titbits

TITBITS

Findings from analysis of Individual behaviour

1) Expressing one's thought freely represents clean heart.Those who doesn't appreciate the same,deserve to be with double faced personality.!

2)Procrastination of any task just because one feels pressurized now doesn't mean problem is solved.consequently,you have to face the pressure with higher intensity.!

3)Responding to email/letter is something much easier than face to face conversation.As one can think before composing one.when not being sure about what to respond in mail,.then expect not an instant reply on real time conversation.!

4)In order to make a scooter ride smooth,both tyres must work well.Even if one of them is punctured,vehicle wont move forward however strong the other tyre be.
similarly,one sided approach doesn't work out any relation well.!

5)In order to know a person,sometimes few quality conversation is enough.Never will you gain faith by 'N"number of meetings if your mind is filled with doubt and uncertainty for the other person.!

6)Knowing the difference between 'Real Love' and "Loving for Need'is required to be judged well.There is a thin line of difference between 'Use' and "Abuse'.!

7)If  you don't like someone but doesn't like to say it directly.Instead opting for portraying ill about self just because opposite person starts disliking you is not a sign of "real Man'.Be assertive and Fearless.!

8)when you can't empathize the one's who care so much about you,then expect not others to understand you.!

9)When a person wants to get married just because he wants to replace a maid,then knowingly stepping into such relationship will not be a good decision. Learning any work for self independence is positive but doing something just to please others without self willingness is not assertive.!

10)when you have an intuition that opposite person is not interested in a conversation,still forcing him/her to reply ,only makes your self esteem low.Be a person of dignity and content.Don't lose your  inner self be used by anyone.!

11)Don't let any person treat you as an 'Option'..Remember you are not a 'thing' to be chosen.You are special and unique in your own way.!


written by
-Priyanka Kamath
16/07/2017